Social networking has become something more than classmate searching, something more than friend finding, something more than chatting and finding those people with common interests. Social networking has become a way to infiltrate the business world, among other things, and a way to make multitudes of connections in almost every professional field. Social networking has become a tool to keep up with the faced paced nature of modern world.
Everyone from schools, organizations, and businesses tp activists and other groups are all in one spot, vying for a piece of the attention-pie. Advertisements and comments and updates and alerts keep the social networker in the know, keep him plugged in to the now and the important ( more likely, the deemed-important). Everything is connected, seemingly.
But are we really connected? It does seem as such, doesn't it? Long-lost friends contact one another after decades, running into each other through the "you might know this person" feature on Facebook or Myspace. Classmates keep up with each other well after high school and college friends make sure everyone made it home from the party. Your status tells everyone you got that much battled for promotion or that you finally popped the question - maybe you even asked that special someone through a comment or message (it isn't far fetched).
And that's the thing - for all of its perks and aid to connectivity, social networking has computerized our interpersonal relationships. Can we really understand each other simply through message - do messages really convey everything we say both explicitly and implicitly?
Roommates wake in the morning, one in the kitchen, one in the bedroom. One has his laptop and the other has his iPhone - they say good morning through Facebook or Myspace chat, maybe physically interacting or speaking to one another briefly the rest of the day.
Electronic conversations are so much easier than physical, face-to-face discourse. These binary conversations allow the individuals involved more time to process information and formulate answers. In real-world interactions, conversations are fast paced and often short and usually leave only a small window for conciseness.
Everyone from schools, organizations, and businesses tp activists and other groups are all in one spot, vying for a piece of the attention-pie. Advertisements and comments and updates and alerts keep the social networker in the know, keep him plugged in to the now and the important ( more likely, the deemed-important). Everything is connected, seemingly.
But are we really connected? It does seem as such, doesn't it? Long-lost friends contact one another after decades, running into each other through the "you might know this person" feature on Facebook or Myspace. Classmates keep up with each other well after high school and college friends make sure everyone made it home from the party. Your status tells everyone you got that much battled for promotion or that you finally popped the question - maybe you even asked that special someone through a comment or message (it isn't far fetched).
And that's the thing - for all of its perks and aid to connectivity, social networking has computerized our interpersonal relationships. Can we really understand each other simply through message - do messages really convey everything we say both explicitly and implicitly?
Roommates wake in the morning, one in the kitchen, one in the bedroom. One has his laptop and the other has his iPhone - they say good morning through Facebook or Myspace chat, maybe physically interacting or speaking to one another briefly the rest of the day.
Electronic conversations are so much easier than physical, face-to-face discourse. These binary conversations allow the individuals involved more time to process information and formulate answers. In real-world interactions, conversations are fast paced and often short and usually leave only a small window for conciseness.
And it feels like people, in general, are losing, to a certain extent, real, interpersonal contact with one another. Everyone's plugged in and connected to one another through the intermediaries that are computers. A great majority of people aren't getting together and expressing their views and ideas and participating in human interaction. But, perhaps, that is an archaic form of communication - the letter, the telegraph, the telephone, the interactive group.
Of course, people get together because they have to - professors issue group work, bosses call meetings. But how often do we get together to discuss our ideas as a cohesive group, a group where body language can be read and inflection and tone can be heard?
But some would argue these points are not necessary for the growth and initiation of relationships. Some would argue that many relationships/friendships have blossomed on social networking sites and that these sites were created for that application - friend making plain and simple. And they would be right on the latter point.
But the growth of a relationship, no matter where it begins and ends, relies on interpersonal contact - individuals have to meet at some point to really know each other.
Of course, people get together because they have to - professors issue group work, bosses call meetings. But how often do we get together to discuss our ideas as a cohesive group, a group where body language can be read and inflection and tone can be heard?
But some would argue these points are not necessary for the growth and initiation of relationships. Some would argue that many relationships/friendships have blossomed on social networking sites and that these sites were created for that application - friend making plain and simple. And they would be right on the latter point.
But the growth of a relationship, no matter where it begins and ends, relies on interpersonal contact - individuals have to meet at some point to really know each other.